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The
First step; Confess!
Some of us have the bright look at the future. They try to be better.
They need the right path of change. But
what are the factors of the positive change? Are there steps to follow the race
of development? Sure
there are and now we will talk about the first step towards success. It's
"confession".
We have to confess. Put a red line under your defects. Stop for a moment
and look inside yourself. Face the real man who you are. Confess your faults and
flaws. Try not to be blind. When
are we going to stop talking about how great was the pharos in the past while we
don't care about our future? When
are we going to stop putting the blame on the others and finding excuses? focus
on our problems so that you can solve them.
For sure that the best ways of confession is that kind between yourself
and the one who has created you. The one who will take our souls again. The one
who controls everything between two letters "be". The one who knows
everything in your heart and knows everything will be happened. Confess with
your tears and regrets. Beg to him not to take your souls before your better
than you are now. Resort to God's
door calling for help to the one who only can help. Cry by your heart and soul.
Stretch your hands as far as you can. We should get back to beseech. God may
send us adversity to waken us and to be more abided by right. It's like a test
and if we didn't get back the adversity will be worse. Some
times we forget worship and God remind us. Don't say there is no hope and
whatever I will do, God will never forgive me. No that's wrong. God likes our
repentance. Allah said to Adam(1): O
Adam, A sin makes you grovel better than obedience you brag about. O Adam, the
groan of guilty is liked better than rosary of worshipper. Why don't we announce
our repentance. Let's resolve to end our sins, our negative attitudes and our
bad things even the little ones. That's doesn't mean that you won't do sins
anymore but you will try to stop it as we hate to sin. Ibn-Al-Khaeem(2)
said: "O guilty do not imagine that sins you do will not pass without
punishment. Your happiness when you do the sin is worse that the sin itself.
Your laughing when you do the sin is worse that the sin. Being uncared that God
is watching you is worse that the sin. Your sadness when you miss the sin is
worse than the sin. Your care to hide yourself while you are doing the sin and
your heart doesn't fear the looking of God to you is worse that the sin. Being
not shy from the angel who writes your deeds is worse than the sin itself."
So
do you know now why does bad things happen to us? Did we forgot the sins and
mistakes of the last 100 year. We assume that every reason of weakness and
defeat start from you. We
are all accused in the adversity. It may be your sins that occupied Iraq and
slaughter Palestine. They may be little but they combine together to hang you.
So, what about the big ones?!
Congratulations
if you admitted that you were wrong. You have just begun your right path.
I'm afraid that people get used to live their life as it. If you will not
make the better step, who will make it?! It's
essential. Start from yourself, Take the first hard step. What
are you waiting for? |
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